“Just let go. Let go of how you thought your life should be, and embrace the life that is trying to work its way into your consciousness.” – Caroline Myss
This is a reflection of my own personal opinions and experience –if it prompts something within you, cool, but if you don’t resonate that’s cool too — we’re all on our own journey’s and it is not intended to invalidate yours.
Law of Attraction Letting Go
I’ve come to appreciate that the energetic vibration of holding a desire tightly, heart-set on making it manifest, is a sure-fire way to ensure… we never receive it.
This could express itself in feelings of resentment, jealousy, defensiveness, blame; any of those constricting states that disallow what is. Or, wishing for a different outcome in the past and being hung up on it, usually to our detriment.
Not letting go of a desire means we’re holding onto a reality so tightly that there is no room for the possibility of something new to come in. In ways we weren’t expecting, perhaps something more enjoyable, or something more aligned for our highest good.
The Law of Attraction states that what we focus on is what we bring into our lives. When we let go of the need to control our lives, we can create the space needed to invite and embrace what the universe offers us. Letting go is essential when trying to manifest our desires because it allows us to open up to receive the abundance of the universe.
Letting Go Allows Us to Open Up to Receive the Abundance of the Universe
At some point, we just have to let things go.
Be willing to drop it. To put it down. To surrender. We have to trust that we have done enough, that we’ve done all that we can do to intentionally receive our desire.
Practice letting go of this attachment and moving forward in peace by reading this script from the Soul Spark manifesting journal to yourself daily during the week:
“From this day-
I commit to stop analyzing why things perhaps haven’t gone better as they relate to this desire, and instead, I choose to let go and let them be better!
I allow all to be revealed and be excited in the way that they will! And in doing so, I give myself permission to feel good now, to feel how I want to feel now regardless of when or how it comes into my life.
I choose to let go of trying to control the ‘how’, how it will all come about. I’m choosing to let go of my attachment to this desire.
I’m deciding to no longer compensate for misaligned energy by offering more time or action. Just like a helpful assistant taking care of all of the details in the background, I trust that my desire is coming to me all in perfect timing, and I trust that if something is required of me, I will feel the intuitive nudge that will bring it to my attention.
I choose to move forward in a state of peace, taking action when it feels great to do so from a place of intention.
I let go of my need to know how it will all come about. I gently flow with life and each new experience. I appreciate where I am, I’m so grateful, I’m excited and eager as things unfold and get better and better.”
Why Is My Manifestation Taking So Long?
Letting go is essential when trying to manifest our desires because it allows us to open up to receive the abundance of the universe. The Law of Attraction states that what we focus on is what we bring into our lives. When we let go of the need to control our lives, we can create the space needed to invite and embrace what the universe offers us.
It can seem like you are the one that will need to make this desire come about, through hard work and action, but this can actually be a sign you’re pointed in the wrong direction. Because in doing so, you may be activating the ‘absence of the desire’ and therefore perpetuating a state of not-having-it.
It’s much more effective to address any misaligned feelings and bring them to our awareness. If you’ve been trying to manifest but are having difficulties, the Soul Spark Journal process reveals to you any misaligned energies (that you may not realise you have) and which could be hindering your manifesting your desire.That way, we can intentionally steer ourselves in a vibrational place of receiving all that we are asking for.
If we hold onto our attachments, expectations, and desires too tightly, it prevents us from allowing abundance to flow freely into our lives. By letting go, we can trust that the universe will provide for us in the ways that are best for us.
Jessica is a designer, intuitive & the creator and author of the Soul Spark Journal. Her writings aim to uplift and inspire – encouraging us to connect with our hearts and design our desires for a life that’s true to us.